To my dearest family....Some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, I arrived ok.
I'm writing this from heaven, here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon, and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said " I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you
were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you are part of my plan.
There is so much we have to do to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years,
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too....
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's is in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night....."My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When your walking down the street and you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free,
remember your not going.....your coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
Copyright 1998-2010
Can't stop thinking about you Tommy. I found this poem on the Effingham Daily News Obituary guest book. Of course it made me cry. I can see you saying this to us to help comfort our hearts and minds.
I'm terrible at grieving and I don't think I'll ever understand why. You were so special to me. I watched you grow from that little "baby belly" boy to a very handsome man. You had such a heartfelt attitude about everything, your smile brightened my day, your laugh was one of a kind, and your love for family unstoppable. I know Caleb loved spending time with you whenever possible. Whether it was basketball on the driveway, darts in the basement, or just roughhousing at family get togethers you always were a terrific uncle. It is unfortunate that Kaelyn didn't get to spend much time with you. However, in her short 3 months of entering this world she was able to teach you that babies aren't breakable. I will cherish every picture I have of the kids and you. They will always know there Uncle Tommy will be in there hearts forever.
Tommy, there wasn't anything we couldn't count on you for. You were one of the most reliable and hardworking people I know. I think Matt had a ton of nicknames for you but the one that will stick with me forever was "It's Howdie Dutie Time". He told me how the name started and I must say 'Only your brother could come up with something like that'. "I'll Decide", something else your brother influenced you on. I always laughed with you two. Now, who is he going to decide with?!
I know the pain will end one day. All of our happy memories, will help with the closure of losing you. However, for now all I have is the knot in my throat, tears in my eyes, and a huge hole in my heart knowing that I never got to say goodbye or tell you how much you meant to me. I always just assumed I had many many years ahead to show you and to tell you how much I loved you. Now that your gone I can only pray that you knew you meant the world to me. I'm continuously asking God, Why!? Why you, Why so young, Why now!? I'll never understand why God always takes the VERY BEST!
Until we meet again Tommy, I will always and forever hold you close to my heart. I'll be thinking of you daily and praying that you'll visit me in my dreams with that onery grin and one of a kind laugh. Thank you for being in my life and showing me what life is all about. Taking most everything with a grain of salt and not sweating the "small stuff". I'm sure Heaven is even brighter now with your smile. You're a wonderful person Tommy, see you on the otherside.
but first of all, to let you know, I arrived ok.
I'm writing this from heaven, here I dwell with God above.
Here there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon, and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said " I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you
were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you are part of my plan.
There is so much we have to do to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years,
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too....
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's is in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night....."My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When your walking down the street and you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free,
remember your not going.....your coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
Copyright 1998-2010
Can't stop thinking about you Tommy. I found this poem on the Effingham Daily News Obituary guest book. Of course it made me cry. I can see you saying this to us to help comfort our hearts and minds.
I'm terrible at grieving and I don't think I'll ever understand why. You were so special to me. I watched you grow from that little "baby belly" boy to a very handsome man. You had such a heartfelt attitude about everything, your smile brightened my day, your laugh was one of a kind, and your love for family unstoppable. I know Caleb loved spending time with you whenever possible. Whether it was basketball on the driveway, darts in the basement, or just roughhousing at family get togethers you always were a terrific uncle. It is unfortunate that Kaelyn didn't get to spend much time with you. However, in her short 3 months of entering this world she was able to teach you that babies aren't breakable. I will cherish every picture I have of the kids and you. They will always know there Uncle Tommy will be in there hearts forever.
Tommy, there wasn't anything we couldn't count on you for. You were one of the most reliable and hardworking people I know. I think Matt had a ton of nicknames for you but the one that will stick with me forever was "It's Howdie Dutie Time". He told me how the name started and I must say 'Only your brother could come up with something like that'. "I'll Decide", something else your brother influenced you on. I always laughed with you two. Now, who is he going to decide with?!
I know the pain will end one day. All of our happy memories, will help with the closure of losing you. However, for now all I have is the knot in my throat, tears in my eyes, and a huge hole in my heart knowing that I never got to say goodbye or tell you how much you meant to me. I always just assumed I had many many years ahead to show you and to tell you how much I loved you. Now that your gone I can only pray that you knew you meant the world to me. I'm continuously asking God, Why!? Why you, Why so young, Why now!? I'll never understand why God always takes the VERY BEST!
Until we meet again Tommy, I will always and forever hold you close to my heart. I'll be thinking of you daily and praying that you'll visit me in my dreams with that onery grin and one of a kind laugh. Thank you for being in my life and showing me what life is all about. Taking most everything with a grain of salt and not sweating the "small stuff". I'm sure Heaven is even brighter now with your smile. You're a wonderful person Tommy, see you on the otherside.
I Love You Tommy!!!
1 comment:
Very well written. I love the poem it brought tears to my eyes.
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